The Day(that don't really make any difference)

It is 00:01, Wednesday 13th February.

You know exactly what day it is tomorrow.

It is the Valentine's Day! If you do not know what day that is, it is a day of the year that you do something special with/ to/ for the one that you love.

Back in time, when I was in a relationship. Sure, this day was special and I did expect to get a little gift from that person I was in the relationship with. But you know, the whole thing about the Valentine's day is just bullsh*t!

Not that I have such a bad attitude after the break up and knowing that I will be spending the Valentine's day more or less alone this year(FOREVER ALONE!).

Let me tell you what I think.

But buying a teddy bear, a heart shaped box with chocolate inside, a heart pillow, some roses... Just for that ONE day of the year to the one that you love. It is bullsh*t(again, I had to use that word)! I mean, if you love someone, why only Valentine's Day? Why waiting a year to buy her/him chocolates? Why waiting a year to show how much you appreciate and love that person? Why waiting a year to go out to a nice restaurant and have dinner together? Why waiting a year to give her/him flowers? If that person is special to you, show him/ her that he/she is special for you everyday. If that person means a lot to you, why wait a year, when you have 364 days left to do special things with/ to that person?

If you are in a relationship or marriage, do it everyday, do not wait a year.
If you are single, love and embrace yourself, because you are a fantastic person.
If you are single and have a crush, you better tell that person soon, before you lose him/ her.
If you are a girlfriend, be nice to your boyfriend. Girls are complicated and boys do not always get us.
If you are a boy, have patient and always try your best, if you believe that she is the one.
If your are single and do not have a crush, you are not the only one and among those people, there are some that are searching for a person just like you!
If you are alone on the Valentine's Day and feeling pity for yourself.. You better change your attitude! It is another bullsh*t day, you were alone yesterday and probably going to be that on the next day too.

I am not an expert on this kind of thing. I learned something from experiencing, and wanted to share...

Smart people move on and learn from the mistakes and the past, so they avoid going through the same thing again.

I wish you all a Happy Wednesday and Valentine's Day.

-Patch